Why Not Here?
What is the Ol' Ball Coach and the sports writer talking about whether they realize it or not? Vision. One can't see it and because he's never experienced it, doubts it can happen. In fact, he's just sitting around, watching and waiting to see if this thing works. If it doesn't, he'll probably say, "I told you so." If it does, he'll jump on the band wagon. The other understands that one of his primary roles in turning the ship around is to get people believing that it can happen - to cast vision.
I've been talking about God's Vision for our church a lot lately. I've talked about a healthy, growing church of 2000 people. Can you see it? Do you believe it can happen? Or because you can't see it and have never experienced it, do you doubt it can ever happen at Coastal? And instead of jumping in wholeheartedly, wiling to do whatever it takes, are you simply waiting and watching to see if this thing works. And when it does (because it will), then you'll jump on board. But every bump in the road in the meantime, you're ready to complain, doubt, and criticize. Let me save you some time - yours and mine. Go ahead and leave now. I'm serious. We don't need people who leave the stadium early in the fourth quarter when they think the game is over. And we also don't need fair weather fans who jump on the band wagon when this thing takes off - because it will.
Let me ask you something - why not here? Why not at Coastal? I see it! I really can! Can you? We're a great church, with great people, with a great vision from God, and most importantly, we serve an awesome Savior! People need Jesus! And we are a church that is overflowing with Him and His power! Who are you praying for? Who are you inviting to Coastal? Seriously, answer those two questions right now! I can't wait for Sunday! See you then!
(I almost found myself rooting for Gamecocks a little bit tonight. Well - at least that would make it a better rivalry!)
Your Lazy Pastor
What brought about his thought? Here's some of what I said in that message: I talked about the importance of being connected in the community of a Small Group and my role as Pastor. According to Ephesians 4:11-13 my primary job is to prepare God's people for ministry. I am not supposed to do all the ministry. I am to equip God's people - you - to serve. Now, that doesn't mean that I get a pass as far as serving is concerned. It doesn't mean that I don't take up the towel and basin and wash people's feet. It doesn't mean that I don't get my hands dirty. It simply means that the church functions best when I am fulfilling my role as spiritual trainer, not everyone's personal partner.
In my message I said that in many churches people see the Pastor as the person who is personally responsible for everyone, all their needs and their spiritual growth - where I run around individually training everyone, where I know each person individually, your family, your extended family, and even your pets. I said that If you want that - you’re in the wrong place. That’s why most churches in America never grow beyond 150 people, because people think that the Pastor is their own personal trainer and partner.
The Biblical model is for Pastors to teach and motivate and inspire in the large gathering and then for the Body of Christ to help each other live it out in community. I care about you - I really do. That’s why I pray and lead and serve. But I can’t care for every one of you. If this church’s growth is dependent on how many people I know - this is it - we’re done. I talked about how people come to church and then miss a few weeks and get upset when no one calls to check up on them. If you think that my job is to come when ever you call or call whenever you don't show up and be your personal trainer and your spiritual police, you're in the wrong place. And if you think that's what you pay me to do - keep your money and go somewhere else.
There have been times in my ministry where I pridefully did all those things - took care of everyone. I took pride in working harder and longer, earlier and later than anyone. I would even be critical of larger churches and other Pastors, saying things like, "I bet that Pastor doesn't do everything I do. I bet he doesn't care for people like I do. I bet those people don't personally know their Pastor like my church does." God forgive me for my pride. I repent. No more. If lazy means saying no, then call me lazy. If lazy means taking a day off once a week, then call me lazy. If lazy means putting the needs of my wife and children above the church calendar, then call me lazy. If lazy means taking a vacation and missing a Sunday, then call me lazy. If lazy means not dying early of stress, hypertension, and high blood pressure, then by all means call me lazy.
We have a vehicle for love, care giving, shepherding, teaching, and discipleship. It's called being connected in the community of a Small Group. If you miss a Sunday, they'll know you're not there. If you're in the hospital, I'll bet they'll come and visit you. They might even bring you a meal or two.
The new guy did tell me that at the end of my message, he understood what I was saying. It made sense. He even came back and volunteered. I was talking about all of us, everyone, being the church. Are you connected? Who are you loving, serving, and caring for? Who are you living out your faith with? I am learning that at times it seems easier to do it yourself. However, it is smarter, better, and Biblical for me build teams and equip others to serve.
Sunday Reflections
Yes, we were down in attendance today, but several things stood out to me. First of all, the picture is the new backdrop that Nancy & Linda did for Coastal Kidz' new series, "On the Trail." They did a great job! And speaking of Coastal Kidz - I am so proud of Erika for stepping up today and leading the Team! She is normally Jennifer's assistant, but on Friday we found out that Jennifer was possibly having contractions and might not make it through the weekend (we're praying for you and baby - can't wait to hear!). She had plenty of help, but on short notice, Erika led the Team and did a great job on our first Sunday of Coastal Kidz having a full service and the first Sunday of the new series!
Gerri, who leads our Communion Ministry, really took to heart my challenge to be a Team Player and a Team Builder. I saw her walking around with her schedule, talking to new people, casting vision, and challenging people to join her Team. Keep up the good work Gerri!
And yes, I did wear a Clemson shirt today and yes I made Karen wear a Clemson hat. Actually, she was a good sport! I know at a lot of churches the Pastor wearing a team shirt might be sacrilegious, but we're not a lot of churches. Everyone knows I wear Clemson shirts all the time and we have a lot of fun with it at Coastal. Don't worry, I know it's just football, and no - I don't worship Clemson.
One rather funny highlight to me was the coffee today. With our new Welcome Room in the process of completion, we're going to be creating more of a real cafe atmosphere. So we decided to upgrade our coffee. For years, like hundreds of churches and your local mechanic waiting room, we just had a couple of coffee pots of coffee. Typically, I would make the coffee around 7:45AM and we would drink that same coffee up until about 10:30AM. Not really being a coffee connoisseur (like my good friend Buck), I never gave it a second thought. Well, today all that changed. We went to a Bunn Airpot coffee brewer and 3 Airpots. We even had 3 speciality coffees! For several caffeine addicts (Jeff & Prisca), you would have thought they had gone to heaven! They were a little extra jittery today. Now when we start serving Diet Mountain Dew, then we'll talk.
The service itself went well. Our band has really made an effort to work on transitional times. We do need to continually work on those same times with our sound and technical teams. Very few people realize how much effort and intention those ministries require. And we have definitely come a long way. People notice when something goes wrong, but take it for granted all the other times. I never want to allow the small things to keep me from worship, but I never want us to think those things don't matter either. Like everything else, it is a work in progress and we are growing.
My message today was from 1Timothy 6 about how to live grateful lives in a greedy world. It was a very timely message for this time of year. It was all about our attitude toward money, possessions, and things. I talked about learning to be content, not putting our hope in things, and enjoying & employing everything God gives us for His glory.
Loved the short video from last week's "The Church Has Left the Building" service. Only 6 weeks until we go to two services! Next week we begin our Christmas series, "Unwrapping Christmas." Well, that's it for today. I'm hoping we'll need some volunteers for painting this week. I'll let you know!
23-21!
Happy Thanksgiving!
Luke 17:11-19, "Now on his way to Jerusalem, Jesus traveled along the border between Samaria and Galilee. As he was going into a village, ten men who had leprosy met him. They stood at a distance and called out in a loud voice, 'Jesus, Master, have pity on us!' When he saw them, he said, 'Go, show yourselves to the priests.' And as they went, they were cleansed. One of them, when he saw he was healed, came back, praising God in a loud voice. He threw himself at Jesus' feet and thanked him -- and he was a Samaritan. Jesus asked, 'Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine? Was no one found to return and give praise to God except this foreigner?' Then he said to him, 'Rise and go; your faith has made you well.'"
"Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine?" - haunting words from Jesus. It's sad to say, but sometimes it seems as though the statistics haven't changed that much. Which group would you be in? Would you be with the nine, the majority, who wanted and received a great blessing from God, but didn't give thanks? Or would you be like the one, who knew he had been greatly blessed, who recognized it came from Jesus, and who personally made the effort to thank Him?
One line from an old chorus (Give Thanks) we used to sing says, "Give thanks, because He's given Jesus Christ, His Son." I can think of no greater reason to be thankful. How are you expressing your thanks? I'm sure the nine lepers were glad they were healed, but remember, only one actually made a physical effort to express it. When we gather together to worship God on Sunday mornings and God asks, "Where are the others? Weren't they all blessed?" which group are you in? When we remember the sacrifice Jesus made on our behalf by taking the Lord's Supper and God asks, "Where are the others? Didn't my Son die for them all?" which group are you in? When we take up our offering to reach our community and world for Christ and God asks, "Where is the rest? Haven't they all been blessed?" which group are you in? When ministry opportunities arise and God asks, "Where are the others?" which group are you in? When God sees so many people who need someone to build a friendship with them, to reach out to them, to invite them to a church or a Small Group, and yet He sees only a very few doing it and He asks, "Where are the others?" which group are you in?
Let's be in the group that expresses our thanks with every aspect of our lives. And let's be like the one who was healed who "praised God in a loud voice" and who "threw himself at Jesus' feet and thanked Him."
Father thank You for loving me and saving me in spite of who I am! Thank You for Jesus! Thank You for Your grace and patience. Thank You for the best life I could ever imagine. Thank You for my beautiful wife Janet. She is my best friend. She is the best wife and mother I could ever imagine. In her, You gave me more than I could ever ask, dream, or imagine. Father, thank You for Lydia and Christopher. Seeing them grow to know and love You and others is the joy of my life. I am so proud of who they are and who they are becoming. Thank You for some of the best friends a guy could or should ever have - friends that I could call at 3 in the morning and they would drop everything and be here. Thank You for Coastal Community Church! It has been the adventure of a lifetime and the best is yet to come! Thank You for allowing me to preach Your Word, shepherd Your flock, lead and serve Your people, and cast Your vision. I am Your unworthy servant. Thank You for the hope of heaven. I can't wait for the day when You call me home or when the sky splits, the trumpet sounds, I bow my knee, cry out, "Jesus is Lord," and get to see Jesus face to face! And thank You that in the meantime You allow me to share Jesus with the world around me!
Blood Battle Update
I Saved Lives Today!
While I laid there on my back, I thought about church (I'm weird that way). We pull out the stops and do whatever it takes to get people in the door. Sometimes it might even seem a little gimmicky. Sometimes we give away stuff. But, who knows - what if just one out of five returns? What if just one gets the message and we save a life?
Back to the Big Game. I can't wait for Saturday. Now that the ACC Championship is out of our reach once again, all I have left is the State Championship. I want revenge! If Clemson loses I think I'm supposed to wear a Carolina hat this Sunday that Karen gave me for my 40th birthday this year (definitely a gag gift!). The worst part of the game with Boston College last Saturday? The B.C. player that sacked Cullen Harper in the closing seconds and put our kicker out of his field goal range - guess what his name was? ROLLINS! That's right! ROLLINS! I'm still sick about that. He will not get an invitation to our Thanksgiving dinner!
I Love our Prayer Team!
Let's be honest - sometimes as Christians we throw around so casually phrases like, "Keep so and so in your prayers. . ." or, "I'll be praying for you . . ." that they've lost their meaning and their power. We never think about it again. It's just a part of Christian jargon, Christianese. I'm guilty as anyone. What I'm trying to do more and more of lately is simply pray with people right then and there in that moment - whether it's in a hospital room, a parking lot, or over the phone. But what I inevitably do is call Prisca who leads our Prayer Team.
They are a group of about 12 faithful men and women who feel an extra burden to pray, behind the scenes - for our church, all it's Ministries, outreach, and growth, for me, my family, and my leadership, and all the requests that get turned in on every Connect Card each weekend. I honestly don't know how I would make it without their prayers and support. I mean that.
Well, today I want to brag about one of them going the extra mile. As most of you know, on Tuesday mornings, I lead a before school Prayer Group for the Faculty and Staff at Oakland Elementary School. And every Tuesday, after I get back to my office, the first call I make is to Prisca to pass on the prayer requests from Oakland. Last week one of the teachers brought up a family in her class that was struggling financially - a single mom (widowed) was having a hard time making ends meet.
This week I showed up to our group and the teacher started thanking me for what someone from our church had done. I had no idea what she was talking about. Evidently, someone from our Prayer Team called up that teacher, got more information about the family and gave them gift cards to Food Lion and Wal-Mart. It touched that woman in ways hard to express. It also touched the teacher. She told our entire group about what someone from our church had done. She was bragging about Coastal! I didn't have to say a word! I was so proud!
The person from our Prayer Team did what they did not for applause or to get noticed, but simply because they love and they listen to God. Prayer is the most important action, the most important work. We forget that. But prayer also always leads to loving action and loving works. They go hand in hand. I'm not going to single this person out, they wouldn't want that. Instead I want to thank the whole team for their example and faithful service to the King, His Kingdom, and our church. Thank you Prisca, Jeff, Matt, Kathy, Teresa, Pat, Mary, Dan, Jeremiah, Christy, and Nancy (mom). You are my Aaron and Hur (Exodus 17:10-13). I love our church and I love our Prayer Team!
"Mother Earth"
Sunday Reflections
The morning started very strangely for me. I showed up at our building at about 7:45AM to find that someone had vandalized one of our sheds. My first thought was, "This is great - on the day we're leaving the serve the community, someone from our community steals our lawn equipment again!" But none of our lawn equipment is in that shed and all they did was rip off the wood from the door frame of the shed. Honestly, I think they took one look inside the shed, could barely move around, and said, "Wow - this is a lot of junk," and took off. They did pick up a few of the bales of pine straw that we were going to be using today and dump them somewhere else - weird. But the better locks that we installed were still intact.
Truthfully, my first thoughts were not very pleasant or Pastor-like. Becoming more and more like Jesus, you see, is harder than it seems. The Holy Spirit convicted me and I found myself thinking - on that first Christmas morning, did God say, "This is great - on the day I leave heaven to serve the community, someone from that community plots my son's death!" On that first Easter, did Jesus say, "This is great - on the day I give my very life to save this community, those who call themselves part of my community have abandoned me." No, they didn't. They served, gave, and loved - in spite of our sin. Romans 5:8, "But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners." You see, while your Pastor was "digging deeper" to plant a few pansies, God used this day for me to go a little deeper in His word. After all, that's what maturity is all about - right? And the deeper I dig, the further I realize I have to go in becoming more and more Christlike.
I was a little disappointed in the number of people that showed up today. Our attendance was definitely down. I'm not sure if it was the earlier time or quite frankly, if it was just that we were going to be working. I hope it's not the latter. But you know what, I'm not going to focus on that, because I was so proud today of those who were there and served. I've said it a lot lately, "We don't go to church. We are the church. And we are on a mission." Today, in a small way, we put that into practice. Our mission is to love people to Jesus! Here are just a few pictures of the volunteer work at Oakland. I'll be adding more from Crisis Ministry Homeless Shelter when I get those pictures. Click here, or on the pictures below to see the rest. I love you Coastal!
Evangelism & Apple
"[Apple’s users] are truly the evangelists. They’re not paid. They’re not employees. They tell people to use [Apple products] solely for the other person’s benefit. That’s the difference between evangelism and sales. Sales is rooted in what’s good for me. Evangelism is rooted in what’s good for you."
Evangelism comes naturally; evangelism flows from your personal enjoyment of a product, a service, a band, a restaurant, a team, or even another person. Sales is convincing someone to buy something. Worlds apart. Are you more like a Salesman or an Evangelist?
(Jared, these links are for you :)
* Buying a Home Computer (Mac vs. Windows)
* Frequently Asked Questions by Parents
* OS Shootout: Mac OSX vs. Windows XP
* But Macs Are More Expensive, Right?
* But There's No Software for the Mac, Right?
* Numbers Don't Tell the Mac's Story
* Fastest Mac ever
* Mac vs. PC
* Why Switch to a Mac?
* The Searing Pain of Using Windows
* Why Can't the PC do this?
* Learning lessons from the Mac
* Advice to Students: Pac a Mac
* Mac Pro Beats Dell on Price
* Switch to a Mac (News - Analysis - Commentary - Advice - Reviews - Discussion)
* 14 Reasons to Switch to a Mac (Coolest-Gadgets.com)
* Mac OS X Shines in Comparison with Windows Vista
* Mac-tastic for two years and counting
* Advancing the world's most advanced operating system
* Switching to the Mac (video tutorial)
* The era of the PC is over: why Apple is beating Microsoft
* Mac OS X Leopard vs Microsoft Windows Vista
* Once and for All, Proof that Macs are Cheaper than PC's
* Why one Pastor switched
Coastal Splat!
Support Our Students!
And the best part? I get to be one of the Judges again! Jeremiah says they still need more chili entries. Prizes & bragging rights at stake! Josh (last year's winner) says, "Bring it on!" Last year he confidently named his chili, "The Winner." See one of our Students to buy tickets or buy them at the door Saturday night - $5 adults / $2.50 10 & under.
Sunday Reflections Part Two
- People really seemed to like the transformation of our Welcome Room. Even though it's far from from complete, the larger space and improved people flow made an immediate impact. I say far from complete, but what Patrick and his crew and our volunteers did in one week was impressive. When we're ready to paint, we'll be sending out the plea for volunteers! (They're laying the tile right now!)
- Our attendance was back up on Sunday. Pray. Build relationships. Invite.
- The Praise & Worship Team did an outstanding job! My wife says that they even cover her mistakes! Everyone really loves the Chris Tomlin arrangement of "Amazing Grace."
- We packed and wrapped almost 50 very large shoe boxes last night for Operation Christmas Child. Always a highlight of the year. Teresa Spell, the master organizer, makes that as smooth as you can imagine. We have several people who would make excellent Mall Christmas Present Wrappers - I am not one of them! (Although I am a rapper of another kind - Jam Pastor Chris!)
- Student Ministry had a lot of kids and a lot of energy last night! Make sure you come to our Chili Cook-off this Saturday, 5:30-7:30. All proceeds go to Student Ministry. Jeremiah says he needs several more chili entries!
- The real highlight for me was seeing everyone sign up to serve next week at our "The Church Has Left the Building" service. Don't miss this service! Come next Sunday at 9:30AM for a very brief time of worship and communion and then we'll be leaving the building to serve our community. Go here for more information and to sign up for one of the two projects.
- Great Noah's Park (Nursery) meeting after church. See Janet to volunteer in Promiseland. We still need several adult volunteers in Coastal Kidz (1st-5th Grade). We want our Sunday morning Children's Ministry to be the best thing a child does that week. We want them begging their parents to return!
- My message "Give it" was all about giving your life away in Ministry. We want Team Players, Team Builders, Willing, Grateful, Faithful Servants in Ministry. And yes, we will see Coastal grow to at least 2,000 people!
- Just 8 weeks away from adding a second Sunday morning Worship Service - January 6th, 9:30AM & 11:15AM!
- And finally, this is more of a Saturday reflection, but Clemson won and South Carolina lost! Life is good!
Sunday Reflections
I've said some hard things during this series - about who we are and who we're not. Jesus said a lot of hard things. When He did, typically, the crowds thinned out. But for those who stayed and were sold out to the vision, it was the ride of a lifetime and they changed the world! That's where we are now. We're clarifying and communicating who we are as a church. We've been pruning a bit (although that's ongoing), but now we're starting to see the growth.
We actually had someone Sunday, right before our worship service began (gotta love that timing), tell Janet that they were leaving the church. They didn't like some things going on here and since "Chris says, 'If you don't like it, you can leave,'" they were leaving. Well, let me clarify a bit. I've never said, "If you don't like something here - leave." What I have said, over and over, is if you aren't willing to do anything and everything it takes to reach out to people who don't know Jesus, you're in the wrong church. And yes, if you're not on board with the vision of this church, then leave. This is who we are and we make no apologies for it. The stakes are too high to quibble over unimportant things. I will not waste my time doing that. As a matter of fact, I expect that there always will be "things" you might not like. We can't please everyone and won't try. We all have different personal preferences - likes and dislikes. Believe it or not, there will be and are things I don't like about our church! But you know what? None of it matters. I'm serious. I am willing to set all that aside to reach people for Jesus. Styles and even strategies will come and go, but what will not change is our commitment to share and experience LIFE - to reach this city for Jesus!
Recently, I pulled out something I wrote in 1989 when I was a senior at Atlanta Christian College, before we moved to Charleston to plant our church. I was 21 years old when I wrote it. It was titled, "Plans and Goals." In it I detailed our vision - the church God was calling me to plant. I wrote about an outwardly focused church, a church willing to do whatever it takes to reach the lost. I dreamed of a church of Small Groups. I dreamed of an army of volunteers and leaders. And at 21 I could already see a church of 2,000 people. Now, my timing was off a bit. Styles and strategies have come and gone. But the vision God gave me for Coastal has never changed. If anything, it is burning with a passion like never before. And on the bottom of a sheet of paper I wrote this statement, "Because there's more to LIFE!"
We need people who will focus on one thing, who are sold out to one thing, and are willing leave everything else that doesn't really matter behind. And the one thing that really matters at Coastal is Jesus, and making Him known to this world! Join us in that Vision! It will be the ride of a lifetime and in the process we'll change the world one life at a time!
Real Men Do Clean
We still need someone to lead the Church Cleaning Ministry. That doesn't mean you do all the cleaning. It means you organize the ministry and recruit volunteers. If you are interested - give me a call.
"Coastal - tear down that wall!"
Operation Christmas Child
Don't forget to purchase your gifts for Operation Christmas Child! We'll be packing and wrapping the shoe boxes this Sunday night, 5-7PM at the church. This is always one of the highlights of the year! Don't miss it!
And the Walls Came Tumbling Down!
Sunday Reflections
Today was interesting. First of all, our attendance tanked. I mean it was bad. I think we had our lowest attendance of the Fall. And yet everyone also got an extra hour of sleep. I don't know what was up. I do know where a lot of people were, but it was just one of those days. Today's message was - "Live it!" It was all about Small Groups. I shared vision and said some pretty hard things - about who we are and who we are not. Cyndi did a great job with the lanyards, flyer, and insert. We really pushed the importance that Small Groups plays in our vision. We must grow smaller and larger at the same time!
Other highlights from today - the drama. They all did a great job. Very funny! Junior went out this week and bought new cymbals for his drums. He's really been working hard on making the transition to live drums a smooth one. I appreciate his effort. Mark did a great job with the Communion Meditation. Prisca did a great job leading the closing song.
After church Janet and I went to a private Memorial Service for Carol Harding's mom. It was very touching. We then ran home, changed clothes, Janet went with the Coastal Kidz to see the Bee Movie and I took our kids to WAVES. Tonight was their first night of splitting Middle School and High School Students. It really went well. Most people don't realize how much work Sunday night is, but Jeremiah and all his volunteers have really done a great job. If you know any Students - get them here on Sunday nights!
Well that's about it - it's late and I'm tired. My clock says 10:20, but my body says 11:20. There's a lot happening in the weeks ahead and I'll be posting about it and sending out information - Operation Christmas Child, The Church Has Left the Building, Coastal Kidz going to a full service, and several other things. And - there will be a cool change to our building this week. You'll see it on Sunday! I love you Coastal! We are on the ride of a lifetime!











